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Happiness Quote by Alice Hoffman

"I really feel like the gift is also the curse. It's always half-and-half. Whatever brings you the most joy will also probably bring you the most pain. Always a price to pay"

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Hoffman’s line reads like a spell cast over the tidy self-help fantasy that talent, love, or vocation can be “purely” rewarding. She’s a novelist who’s built a career on the mingling of enchantment and ache, and the sentence structure does the same work: gift and curse fused, joy and pain yoked, “half-and-half” repeated like a refrain. It’s not a consolation; it’s a warning delivered in calm, declarative prose.

The intent is to normalize ambivalence without romanticizing suffering. Hoffman isn’t saying pain is noble. She’s arguing that the things that matter most are the ones that expose you most fully: to hope, to failure, to loss, to obsession. The subtext is about emotional cost as a kind of hidden contract. If you want the high-voltage version of feeling (the kind artists chase, the kind relationships promise), you also sign up for the fallout: the sensitivity that makes creation possible also makes criticism brutal; the capacity for devotion also creates the conditions for grief.

“Always a price to pay” lands with a moral weight that’s deliberately unsentimental. It reframes pain not as bad luck but as evidence of stake. In a cultural moment that markets “finding your passion” as a life hack, Hoffman insists on the ledger. Not because she’s cynical, but because she’s allergic to the lie that you can extract meaning without vulnerability.

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Alice Hoffman (born March 16, 1952) is a Author from USA.

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