"I really need to be alone. I can't deal with someone sleeping next to me"
About this Quote
As an actor, that makes particular sense. Performance is porous work: you borrow emotions, inhabit other people’s skins, live in a constant state of being watched, interpreted, misread. Off-camera, the desire to close the door reads as a recoil from perpetual access. The phrasing “can’t deal” is tellingly contemporary and unpoetic, a small admission of overwhelm rather than grand loneliness. It suggests sensory or psychological hypervigilance: the breathing, the heat, the micro-movements become too much, a reminder that intimacy is also noise.
Culturally, the quote pushes back against the romance script that equates closeness with virtue. It makes room for a less marketable truth: some people love others best with distance, and some careers amplify that need. Lone isn’t asking to be understood as complicated; he’s insisting his limits are real, and that alone time isn’t a flaw to be fixed but a condition for staying functional.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lone, John. (n.d.). I really need to be alone. I can't deal with someone sleeping next to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-really-need-to-be-alone-i-cant-deal-with-160552/
Chicago Style
Lone, John. "I really need to be alone. I can't deal with someone sleeping next to me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-really-need-to-be-alone-i-cant-deal-with-160552/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I really need to be alone. I can't deal with someone sleeping next to me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-really-need-to-be-alone-i-cant-deal-with-160552/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








