"I really think that aside from admiring my talent you really admire me as a person and as a woman"
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The repetition of "admire" matters. Admiration is a socially acceptable form of desire, a kind of polite hunger. Dunham redirects that hunger away from the spectacle of talent and toward personhood: "me as a person and as a woman". Not "an artist", not "a genius" - categories that still keep her safely on a pedestal - but an insistence on full social recognition, with gender explicitly named. In a field that historically treats women’s bodies as public property and dancers as interchangeable instruments, she asserts singularity.
Context sharpens the intent. Dunham built an empire of movement that was also scholarship: anthropological research in the Caribbean and Africa, a technique that reshaped American dance, and a public life threaded through race politics and cultural diplomacy. Compliments offered to someone like Dunham often came laced with exoticization: praise for "talent" that doubles as permission to look. Her sentence asks for a different kind of regard: not applause, not fascination, but respect - the kind that survives when the curtain falls.
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"I really think that aside from admiring my talent you really admire me as a person and as a woman." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-really-think-that-aside-from-admiring-my-talent-62287/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







