"I remember feeling that. I couldn't do, nor did I want to do, the kinds of roles I'd been doing"
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For a mid-century Broadway singer branded as the bright, effortless soubrette, this is loaded. Those "kinds of roles" weren't neutral parts; they were a persona the business could package: youthful, sunny, accommodating. Age, changing taste, and Cook's own musical curiosity made that template feel like a costume that no longer zipped. The subtext is about control - who gets to decide what a woman "is" onstage, and how hard it is to renegotiate that contract once the audience thinks it owns your silhouette.
What makes the quote sting is the tension between gratitude and refusal. Cook isn't performing disdain. She's describing a threshold: the instant an artist stops auditioning for approval and starts auditioning for a life that can hold their evolving voice.
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| Topic | Reinvention |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cook, Barbara. (2026, January 16). I remember feeling that. I couldn't do, nor did I want to do, the kinds of roles I'd been doing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-feeling-that-i-couldnt-do-nor-did-i-114368/
Chicago Style
Cook, Barbara. "I remember feeling that. I couldn't do, nor did I want to do, the kinds of roles I'd been doing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-feeling-that-i-couldnt-do-nor-did-i-114368/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I remember feeling that. I couldn't do, nor did I want to do, the kinds of roles I'd been doing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-feeling-that-i-couldnt-do-nor-did-i-114368/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




