"I remember how to be a person by being around them"
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The phrasing does two smart things. First, it frames identity as relational rather than purely internal. Portman isn’t talking about self-discovery through solitude; she’s talking about recalibration through proximity, the way ordinary banter, shared meals, and unperformed reactions pull you back into the messy, unoptimized version of yourself. Second, it sneaks in a critique of celebrity without sermonizing. "Being around them" implies a specific "they": people who aren’t auditioning, networking, branding, or evaluating. The subtext is that fame can create a social habitat where every interaction has a second job, and you start mistaking that for normal life.
It also carries a little confession of dependency that goes against the celebrity myth of the self-contained star. She’s not presenting therapy-speak resilience; she’s describing a human need for grounding witnesses. The intent feels less like self-pity than a reminder: the most radical luxury, when you’re constantly watched, is contact that doesn’t feel like observation.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Portman, Natalie. (2026, January 16). I remember how to be a person by being around them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-how-to-be-a-person-by-being-around-them-100026/
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Portman, Natalie. "I remember how to be a person by being around them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-how-to-be-a-person-by-being-around-them-100026/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I remember how to be a person by being around them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-how-to-be-a-person-by-being-around-them-100026/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







