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Fatherhood Quote by Ornette Coleman

"I remember once, we got an interview, and he said, 'Dad, these people are writing about me like I'm an adult. Don't they know I'm a kid?' I have never tried to encourage him to get a music image like other musicians have"

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Fame hits Ornette Coleman here not as glamour but as a kind of clerical error: the press misfiles a child as a fully formed adult and then prints the consequences. The line from his son, startled that strangers are narrating him with grown-up stakes, punctures the usual myth of the prodigy as public property. Coleman lets the kid’s confusion do the critique. It’s disarming, and that’s the point: a child’s plain question makes the machinery of cultural coverage look grotesque.

The second sentence is where Coleman’s values show. “Image” isn’t framed as creative identity but as an imposed costume, something “other musicians” acquire as if it’s part of the job. Coleman’s refusal to “encourage” that reads like quiet defiance against an industry that sells personality as much as sound, and against a media ecosystem that wants a narrative arc ready-made: genius, scandal, redemption, repeat. He’s drawing a boundary around childhood and, by extension, around artistic development - you don’t brand what’s still becoming.

Coming from Coleman, a figure who fought to be heard on his own terms, the subtext lands harder. He knew how critics can weaponize categories - “mature,” “serious,” “primitive,” “avant-garde” - to control the story. Here he’s insisting that the most radical thing a parent (and artist) can do is protect a person from becoming a product too early, even when the spotlight is already on.

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Coleman, Ornette. (2026, January 15). I remember once, we got an interview, and he said, 'Dad, these people are writing about me like I'm an adult. Don't they know I'm a kid?' I have never tried to encourage him to get a music image like other musicians have. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-once-we-got-an-interview-and-he-said-165591/

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Coleman, Ornette. "I remember once, we got an interview, and he said, 'Dad, these people are writing about me like I'm an adult. Don't they know I'm a kid?' I have never tried to encourage him to get a music image like other musicians have." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-once-we-got-an-interview-and-he-said-165591/.

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"I remember once, we got an interview, and he said, 'Dad, these people are writing about me like I'm an adult. Don't they know I'm a kid?' I have never tried to encourage him to get a music image like other musicians have." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-once-we-got-an-interview-and-he-said-165591/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Ornette Coleman (March 19, 1930 - June 11, 2015) was a Musician from USA.

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