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Happiness Quote by Fred Frith

"I remember playing football dressed in peculiar costumes with some friends in France and laughing so hard we couldn't even stand up, let alone kick the ball"

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It is a memory engineered to sound like an anti-memoir: no heroic match, no score, not even the dignity of staying upright. Fred Frith, a composer whose career has largely been about prying music loose from its respectable frames, chooses football as the set piece precisely because it carries so much inherited seriousness. Then he punctures it with “peculiar costumes” and the bodily failure of laughter. The point isn’t sport; it’s permission.

The intent reads like a quiet manifesto for a certain post-1960s European art lineage: play as method, incompetence as freedom, community as the real “work.” Set in France, the scene nods to a culture of happenings, improvisation, and anti-institutional performance where costumes aren’t decoration but a device. They suspend ordinary roles, making it socially safe to act wrong on purpose. That “couldn’t even stand up” isn’t just slapstick; it’s a rebuke to the productivity ethic that insists activities must yield results. Here, the failed kick is the success.

Subtextually, Frith is describing composition without naming it: a group of friends, a loose set of constraints (a ball, costumes, a field), and an outcome determined by attention, accidents, and shared timing. Laughter becomes a kind of ensemble listening, the body’s way of syncing to others. The memory frames art not as solitary genius but as convivial risk - where the best moment is when the plan collapses and everyone, briefly, is unguarded.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frith, Fred. (2026, January 16). I remember playing football dressed in peculiar costumes with some friends in France and laughing so hard we couldn't even stand up, let alone kick the ball. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-playing-football-dressed-in-peculiar-90035/

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Frith, Fred. "I remember playing football dressed in peculiar costumes with some friends in France and laughing so hard we couldn't even stand up, let alone kick the ball." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-playing-football-dressed-in-peculiar-90035/.

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"I remember playing football dressed in peculiar costumes with some friends in France and laughing so hard we couldn't even stand up, let alone kick the ball." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-remember-playing-football-dressed-in-peculiar-90035/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Fred Frith (born February 17, 1949) is a Composer from England.

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