"I said 'It can't go on' and he said 'No, it can't.' Honestly, I don't think I could have mattered less to him by then. But by then, nothing mattered to him"
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The next sentence lands like delayed pain: “I don’t think I could have mattered less to him by then.” The “by then” is doing heavy lifting. It implies a long erosion, a slow retreat where love didn’t end in a dramatic scene but in a series of tiny abandonments. The speaker isn’t only grieving the relationship; she’s reckoning with how long she stayed after she’d stopped registering.
Then Smith flips the knife: “But by then, nothing mattered to him.” It’s a self-protective reframing that still aches. If she was irrelevant because he was emotionally bankrupt, her insignificance becomes less personal, less shameful. Yet it also widens the tragedy: she wasn’t rejected by a man who chose someone else; she was dismissed by someone who’d hollowed out.
As an actor’s line, it’s built for the pause between sentences, the moment where the audience watches someone realize the worst part isn’t losing him - it’s discovering he’d already lost the capacity to care about anything. The intent isn’t to romanticize heartbreak; it’s to name that particular modern cruelty: relationships ending not with hatred, but with absence.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Maggie. (2026, January 16). I said 'It can't go on' and he said 'No, it can't.' Honestly, I don't think I could have mattered less to him by then. But by then, nothing mattered to him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-said-it-cant-go-on-and-he-said-no-it-cant-102541/
Chicago Style
Smith, Maggie. "I said 'It can't go on' and he said 'No, it can't.' Honestly, I don't think I could have mattered less to him by then. But by then, nothing mattered to him." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-said-it-cant-go-on-and-he-said-no-it-cant-102541/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I said 'It can't go on' and he said 'No, it can't.' Honestly, I don't think I could have mattered less to him by then. But by then, nothing mattered to him." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-said-it-cant-go-on-and-he-said-no-it-cant-102541/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



