"I saw my parents as gods whose every wish must be obeyed or I would suffer the penalty of anguish and guilt"
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Wood’s context matters. As a working actress from childhood, she grew up inside an economy of approval where adults manage access to roles, security, and affection. In that environment, obedience isn’t just about being “good”; it’s about being employable, presentable, bankable. The subtext is that parental authority can piggyback on the larger machinery of Hollywood: pleasing the parents becomes rehearsal for pleasing everyone else. You learn early that dissent risks not just conflict, but a collapse of belonging.
There’s also a quiet sting in “I saw.” Past tense signals distance, a later self looking back at an old theology and noticing how it was installed. The line doesn’t accuse her parents outright; it indicts the system of devotion that made her responsible for other people’s happiness. That’s what gives it staying power: it captures how control often survives as a feeling, long after the controllers are gone.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wood, Natalie. (2026, January 16). I saw my parents as gods whose every wish must be obeyed or I would suffer the penalty of anguish and guilt. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-my-parents-as-gods-whose-every-wish-must-be-128141/
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Wood, Natalie. "I saw my parents as gods whose every wish must be obeyed or I would suffer the penalty of anguish and guilt." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-my-parents-as-gods-whose-every-wish-must-be-128141/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I saw my parents as gods whose every wish must be obeyed or I would suffer the penalty of anguish and guilt." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-my-parents-as-gods-whose-every-wish-must-be-128141/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.





