"I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it"
About this Quote
Coming from Yoko Ono, this isn’t armchair Buddhism. It’s an artist’s survival strategy shaped by a life lived under relentless projection: avant-garde provocateur, Beatles footnote, tabloid villain, widow turned public symbol. When your identity is constantly claimed, misread, and taken apart by strangers, “don’t possess” starts to sound less like serenity and more like self-defense. The subtext is that possession is a fantasy of control, and control is what collapses first under pressure - whether the pressure is grief, fame, political violence, or just time.
The intent feels quietly radical: to love without turning the beloved into a property you manage. There’s also a hidden critique of consumer culture’s emotional logic, where value is proven by acquisition. Ono’s phrasing is stark enough to sting because it doesn’t offer a workaround. It suggests the cost of caring is accepting loss upfront, and that the attempt to insure ourselves against heartbreak is what makes us brittle.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ono, Yoko. (2026, January 18). I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-that-nothing-was-permanent-you-dont-want-to-3860/
Chicago Style
Ono, Yoko. "I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-that-nothing-was-permanent-you-dont-want-to-3860/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-that-nothing-was-permanent-you-dont-want-to-3860/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










