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Success Quote by Yoko Ono

"I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it"

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Impermanence is the scalpel here: Ono takes a blunt spiritual truism and turns it into a practical, almost abrasive ethic. The first sentence lands like a cold epiphany - not a comforting reminder, but a diagnosis. Then she pivots to the real target: possession. “Dear” is doing double work, meaning beloved and costly, hinting that attachment is both emotional and transactional. The line doesn’t plead for detachment; it indicts the way we convert love into ownership to feel safe.

Coming from Yoko Ono, this isn’t armchair Buddhism. It’s an artist’s survival strategy shaped by a life lived under relentless projection: avant-garde provocateur, Beatles footnote, tabloid villain, widow turned public symbol. When your identity is constantly claimed, misread, and taken apart by strangers, “don’t possess” starts to sound less like serenity and more like self-defense. The subtext is that possession is a fantasy of control, and control is what collapses first under pressure - whether the pressure is grief, fame, political violence, or just time.

The intent feels quietly radical: to love without turning the beloved into a property you manage. There’s also a hidden critique of consumer culture’s emotional logic, where value is proven by acquisition. Ono’s phrasing is stark enough to sting because it doesn’t offer a workaround. It suggests the cost of caring is accepting loss upfront, and that the attempt to insure ourselves against heartbreak is what makes us brittle.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ono, Yoko. (2026, January 18). I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-that-nothing-was-permanent-you-dont-want-to-3860/

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Ono, Yoko. "I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-that-nothing-was-permanent-you-dont-want-to-3860/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I saw that nothing was permanent. You don't want to possess anything that is dear to you because you might lose it." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-saw-that-nothing-was-permanent-you-dont-want-to-3860/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Yoko Ono

Yoko Ono (born February 18, 1933) is a Artist from USA.

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