"I see nothing wrong with the human trait to desire. In fact, I consider it integral to our success mechanism. Becoming attached to what we desire is what causes the trouble. If you must have it in order to be happy, then you are denying the happiness of the here and now"
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The subtext is a critique of consumer culture and performance spirituality in the same breath. McWilliams doesn't ask you to renounce pleasure; he asks you to notice the moment desire becomes a hostage situation, where your emotional baseline is held for ransom by the next purchase, achievement, relationship, or validation. "Becoming attached" is doing heavy lifting here, importing a Buddhist-inflected diagnosis into plainspoken American prose: the suffering isn't in the object, it's in the demand you make of it.
Context matters. McWilliams, a countercultural writer who tangled with institutions, understood how systems sell salvation - in products, in credentials, in the promise of being finally "fixed". His last line is the pivot: the future-oriented bargain ("I will be happy when...") doesn't just postpone joy; it actively erases the present. The quote works because it doesn't flatter your discipline; it challenges your conditionality.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McWilliams, Peter. (2026, January 16). I see nothing wrong with the human trait to desire. In fact, I consider it integral to our success mechanism. Becoming attached to what we desire is what causes the trouble. If you must have it in order to be happy, then you are denying the happiness of the here and now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-see-nothing-wrong-with-the-human-trait-to-115547/
Chicago Style
McWilliams, Peter. "I see nothing wrong with the human trait to desire. In fact, I consider it integral to our success mechanism. Becoming attached to what we desire is what causes the trouble. If you must have it in order to be happy, then you are denying the happiness of the here and now." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-see-nothing-wrong-with-the-human-trait-to-115547/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I see nothing wrong with the human trait to desire. In fact, I consider it integral to our success mechanism. Becoming attached to what we desire is what causes the trouble. If you must have it in order to be happy, then you are denying the happiness of the here and now." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-see-nothing-wrong-with-the-human-trait-to-115547/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









