"I sit there pouring out my woes year after year, coming up with one enormity after another about my mother and the way she let me down; but it doesn't make me any the less fearful"
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Von Trier is famous for turning shame, anxiety, and cruelty into aesthetic method; the quote reads like a director describing his own writer's room. "Pouring out my woes year after year" mimics the tempo of compulsive repetition, the way trauma can become a genre you keep returning to because it's familiar, not because it's resolved. The mother is both specific and archetypal: a ready-made origin story that offers moral clarity ("she let me down") and the seductive promise that if you locate the culprit, you'll regain control. He undercuts that fantasy by admitting the fear survives the explanation.
The subtext is almost accusatory toward catharsis itself. If the telling doesn't change the feeling, what's it for? Sometimes it's cover: analysis as avoidance, autobiography as armor. Coming from a director whose films often stage suffering with uncomfortable intimacy, it also reads as an admission that art and confession can circle the wound without closing it - generating meaning, even notoriety, while leaving the body braced for impact.
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| Topic | Mother |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Trier, Lars von. (2026, January 16). I sit there pouring out my woes year after year, coming up with one enormity after another about my mother and the way she let me down; but it doesn't make me any the less fearful. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-sit-there-pouring-out-my-woes-year-after-year-135689/
Chicago Style
Trier, Lars von. "I sit there pouring out my woes year after year, coming up with one enormity after another about my mother and the way she let me down; but it doesn't make me any the less fearful." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-sit-there-pouring-out-my-woes-year-after-year-135689/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I sit there pouring out my woes year after year, coming up with one enormity after another about my mother and the way she let me down; but it doesn't make me any the less fearful." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-sit-there-pouring-out-my-woes-year-after-year-135689/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.



