"I sometimes suspect that half our difficulties are imaginary and that if we kept quiet about them they would disappear"
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The second clause lands like a taboo: “if we kept quiet.” In modern culture, silence reads as denial, complicity, repression. Lynd flips that reflex. He’s naming the way complaint can function as a feedback loop, a kind of civic performativity where naming a difficulty gives it an audience, and an audience gives it endurance. The subtext is less self-help than social critique: institutions, media, and even reform movements can turn every friction into a “problem” because problems justify budgets, headlines, expertise, and moral urgency.
Placed against Lynd’s broader work on Middletown and the routines of American life, the quote feels like an argument about attention as a resource. Communities don’t just have issues; they organize around them, sometimes preferring the identity of besiegement to the uncertainty of quiet competence. Lynd isn’t preaching passivity. He’s warning that discourse itself can be a technology of escalation - and that some troubles, deprived of oxygen, really do shrink back to their proper size.
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Lynd, Robert Staughton. (2026, January 16). I sometimes suspect that half our difficulties are imaginary and that if we kept quiet about them they would disappear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-sometimes-suspect-that-half-our-difficulties-109994/
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Lynd, Robert Staughton. "I sometimes suspect that half our difficulties are imaginary and that if we kept quiet about them they would disappear." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-sometimes-suspect-that-half-our-difficulties-109994/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I sometimes suspect that half our difficulties are imaginary and that if we kept quiet about them they would disappear." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-sometimes-suspect-that-half-our-difficulties-109994/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










