"I soothe my conscience now with the thought that it is better for hard words to be on paper than that Mummy should carry them in her heart"
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The intent is self-justification, but it’s also a kind of moral triage. “Hard words” suggests she’s written something sharp about her mother, and she’s trying to reframe that sharpness as protective rather than cruel. The conscience wants a clean story: I didn’t wound her; I displaced the wound onto paper. Yet the phrasing gives away the subtext: Anne knows writing isn’t neutral. Putting words “on paper” can be a release, but it can also be evidence - and Anne is unusually aware, even as a teenager, that language has consequences beyond the moment.
“Mummy” matters. It’s intimate, almost childlike, which makes the emotional violence of “carry them in her heart” sting more. Anne isn’t romanticizing her mother; she’s recognizing her as a person who can be injured, and recognizing herself as someone capable of inflicting that injury.
In context, the confinement intensifies everything. There’s nowhere for frustration to go except inward or onto the people closest to you. The diary becomes a pressure valve, but also a mirror: a place where Anne can be petty, honest, tender, and then watch herself trying to become the kind of person who doesn’t need excuses.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mother |
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| Source | Anne Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl (Het Achterhuis), 1947 — diary entry; English translations include the line about it being better for hard words to be on paper than for Mummy to carry them in her heart. |
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Frank, Anne. (2026, January 17). I soothe my conscience now with the thought that it is better for hard words to be on paper than that Mummy should carry them in her heart. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-soothe-my-conscience-now-with-the-thought-that-29864/
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Frank, Anne. "I soothe my conscience now with the thought that it is better for hard words to be on paper than that Mummy should carry them in her heart." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-soothe-my-conscience-now-with-the-thought-that-29864/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I soothe my conscience now with the thought that it is better for hard words to be on paper than that Mummy should carry them in her heart." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-soothe-my-conscience-now-with-the-thought-that-29864/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










