"I spent hours on the internet looking at how glamorous actresses winked and how they would put their hand on their waist, and I was told to look at how they would walk in a room and how her body takes place of everything"
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The specificity of the gestures is the point. A wink, a hand on a waist, a walk into a room: tiny, repeatable units of femininity that read instantly on camera and in publicity photos. Bejo’s phrasing - “how her body takes place of everything” - is clumsy in a revealing way, as if language itself buckles under the absurdity of the demand. The body doesn’t just accompany the performance; it “takes place,” displacing voice, craft, interiority. It becomes the headline.
Culturally, the quote lands in the post-streaming, post-social era where actresses are expected to be both talent and perpetual image managers, fluent in the micro-choreography of desirability. The subtext isn’t anti-glamour so much as exhaustion with the narrowness of what glamour is allowed to be: a set of borrowed moves that promise power while quietly enforcing sameness. Bejo is showing how aspiration can become surveillance, and how “learning” to be seen can crowd out the freedom to act.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bejo, Berenice. (2026, January 15). I spent hours on the internet looking at how glamorous actresses winked and how they would put their hand on their waist, and I was told to look at how they would walk in a room and how her body takes place of everything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-spent-hours-on-the-internet-looking-at-how-37909/
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Bejo, Berenice. "I spent hours on the internet looking at how glamorous actresses winked and how they would put their hand on their waist, and I was told to look at how they would walk in a room and how her body takes place of everything." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-spent-hours-on-the-internet-looking-at-how-37909/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I spent hours on the internet looking at how glamorous actresses winked and how they would put their hand on their waist, and I was told to look at how they would walk in a room and how her body takes place of everything." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-spent-hours-on-the-internet-looking-at-how-37909/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.


