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Daily Inspiration Quote by Kylie Bax

"I stayed away from mirrors when I was younger and I didn't like having my picture taken. I was tall and had braces and felt ugly"

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For a model, “I stayed away from mirrors” lands like a quiet inversion of the job description. Kylie Bax isn’t selling a rags-to-runway fairy tale as much as exposing the backstage mechanics of beauty: the way self-image gets built out of avoidance, not confidence. The mirror here isn’t vanity; it’s surveillance. When you’re “tall and had braces,” adolescence turns your own body into a public project, something always being measured against a moving target of “normal.”

The phrasing is blunt, almost anti-glamour. No poetic softening, no empowering hindsight. “Felt ugly” is doing more work than “was ugly” ever could, because it flags the real villain: perception. In a culture that treats attractiveness as both currency and moral signal, “felt” points to the social feedback loop that teaches you what you’re allowed to see when you look at yourself. Mirrors and cameras aren’t neutral objects; they’re instruments that return a verdict.

In context, coming from someone who eventually made her living being photographed, the line carries a sting of irony. Modeling is often framed as the reward for the naturally confident, but Bax suggests the industry can recruit precisely the opposite: people trained to mistrust their own reflection, eager for an external authority to confirm they’re “worth looking at.” The subtext isn’t “I overcame insecurity.” It’s “insecurity was part of the system that shaped me.”

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Kylie Bax (born January 5, 1975) is a Model from New Zealand.

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