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Daily Inspiration Quote by Kylie Bax

"I stayed away from mirrors when I was younger and I didn't like having my picture taken. I was tall and had braces and felt ugly"

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The confession captures the ache of adolescence, when the mirror feels like a judge and a camera like an indictment. Avoiding reflections and photographs signals a deeper refusal to be fixed in an image that does not match the self one hopes to become. Tallness and braces in youth often skew as awkward rather than elegant; growth outpaces grace, and the devices of transition become emblems of perceived deficiency. Feeling ugly is less a statement of fact than a narrative formed under the pressure of comparison and the unforgiving immediacy of the teenage gaze.

Kylie Bax later became a celebrated model, which casts a poignant irony over her recollection. The very traits that read as ungainly in a middle school hallway are prized on a runway. That reversal exposes how beauty standards are contextual and mutable, and how self-perception frequently lags behind reality. It also suggests the arbitrariness of cultural taste: a few years, a new environment, a different kind of gaze, and what once seemed a flaw becomes an asset.

There is, too, a story about control. By staying away from mirrors and cameras, she claimed a measure of power amid insecurity, choosing not to participate in images that would crystallize a painful self-concept. Later, stepping before the lens as a profession implies not only external validation but an internal negotiation: learning to inhabit the face and body one previously fled. The camera shifts from a threat to a tool, from exposure to expression.

Her memory resonates beyond celebrity. It affirms how many people, especially adolescents, carry private dissonance between how they are seen and how they see themselves. It nudges compassion for the awkward stages that are not failures but passages. And it hints that confidence is not bestowed by applause; it is built through time, context, and the quiet work of reconciling with one’s own reflection.

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Kylie Bax (born January 5, 1975) is a Model from New Zealand.

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