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Motherhood Quote by Pierre Loti

"I still went to church regularly every Sunday; that is we all went there together. I reverenced the family pew where we had assembled for so many years; and apart from that reason I hold it dear because it is associated in my memory with my mother"

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Piety isn’t really the point here; choreography is. Loti’s “regularly every Sunday” quickly narrows into “we all went there together,” and the center of gravity shifts from God to the family unit, from doctrine to ritual. The church becomes less a site of belief than a weekly staging of belonging, a place where continuity can be rehearsed even as modern life frays the old ties.

The loaded object isn’t the altar, but the “family pew,” a small piece of property that functions like an heirloom. A pew is furniture, yes, but also a social marker: it literalizes rank and rootedness, telling you who belongs where. Loti “reverences” it not because wood deserves reverence, but because memory does. That word choice is sly; reverence is redirected from the sacred to the domestic, suggesting a quiet displacement of faith by filial loyalty.

Then comes the pivot: “apart from that reason,” he says, as if trying to keep sentiment in check, only to admit the deeper attachment: the pew is “associated…with my mother.” The line reads like a restrained confession, typical of late-19th-century sensibility where emotion must pass through objects to become speakable. In a writer known for nostalgia, travel, and the ache of vanishing worlds, the pew is a portable homeland: not theology, but a mother-shaped absence given a weekly address.

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Pierre Loti (January 14, 1850 - June 10, 1923) was a Writer from France.

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