"I stumbled into acting and just loved it. I deferred law school-and I'm still deferred"
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The second sentence is the cultural tell. Law school stands in for respectability, parental expectations, and the clean narrative you can explain at a family dinner without sounding like you’re gambling with your life. “I deferred law school” is the respectable excuse you tell yourself when you’re taking a risk: I’m not quitting, I’m postponing. Then: “and I’m still deferred.” That’s the wink. It exposes how often “temporary” detours become the actual road, and how adulthood is frequently just a series of extensions on the person you thought you’d be.
De Rossi’s intent is self-deprecating, but the subtext is sharper: creative work isn’t always chosen; sometimes it’s the thing that chooses you because it fits better than the supposedly sensible alternative. Coming from an actress known for comedic timing, the line also doubles as brand coherence: she turns anxiety about legitimacy into a joke that lands, and in doing so, claims authority over her own narrative.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rossi, Portia de. (2026, January 16). I stumbled into acting and just loved it. I deferred law school-and I'm still deferred. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-stumbled-into-acting-and-just-loved-it-i-83099/
Chicago Style
Rossi, Portia de. "I stumbled into acting and just loved it. I deferred law school-and I'm still deferred." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-stumbled-into-acting-and-just-loved-it-i-83099/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I stumbled into acting and just loved it. I deferred law school-and I'm still deferred." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-stumbled-into-acting-and-just-loved-it-i-83099/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.
