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Daily Inspiration Quote by John Milius

"I suppose when I started out I would have liked to have been the darling of critics or something, but everybody wants to be loved and admired"

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There’s a shrug baked into John Milius’s phrasing, and it’s doing more work than the confession. “I suppose” is the verbal equivalent of leaning back in a chair: a casual, almost amused admission that ambition used to have a cleaner shape. He doesn’t deny wanting critical approval; he reframes it as a youthful fantasy (“the darling of critics”) and then quickly widens the lens to something more defensible and human: “everybody wants to be loved and admired.” That pivot is the move. It converts a potentially vain desire into a universal appetite, softening the ego while still protecting it.

The subtext is a career-long negotiation with gatekeepers. Milius, associated with big, muscular American mythmaking (and the polarizing politics that often get stapled to it), was never built to be the critics’ pet. So the line reads like a preemptive strike against dismissal: you can call my work excessive, but don’t pretend your own tastes aren’t wrapped up in social approval too. By invoking “everybody,” he levels the hierarchy between artist and reviewer, turning critical acclaim into just another version of wanting a pat on the head.

Context matters: a director working in a system where taste is currency, where being anointed by critics can buy longevity, budgets, and cultural permission. Milius isn’t romanticizing the audience; he’s acknowledging the market of validation. The quote lands because it’s both self-aware and self-protective: a man translating the sting of not being canonized into a broader truth about how art, ego, and attention actually operate.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Milius, John. (2026, January 15). I suppose when I started out I would have liked to have been the darling of critics or something, but everybody wants to be loved and admired. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-suppose-when-i-started-out-i-would-have-liked-155056/

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Milius, John. "I suppose when I started out I would have liked to have been the darling of critics or something, but everybody wants to be loved and admired." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-suppose-when-i-started-out-i-would-have-liked-155056/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I suppose when I started out I would have liked to have been the darling of critics or something, but everybody wants to be loved and admired." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-suppose-when-i-started-out-i-would-have-liked-155056/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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John Milius (born April 11, 1944) is a Director from USA.

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