"I tell her all the time I'd gladly retire and hang out with the kids and clean the house. I want to have a good life and great family, and from a professional standpoint I want to be successful, but it's not the most important thing at all"
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The phrasing is doing a lot of work. "Hang out with the kids" is casual, almost breezy, as if parenting were a privilege rather than a grind; "clean the house" is the grounding detail that signals sincerity. He isn't just pitching an Instagram-ready version of family life. He's naming the unsexy labor that makes a home function, which subtly pushes against the old pop-masculinity script where domestic responsibility is optional, outsourced, or quietly credited to someone else.
Context matters: Lachey comes out of late-90s boy-band culture, where romantic sensitivity was the product and relentless visibility was the business model. A public life like that burns hot and fast. So this sounds less like a quaint daydream and more like someone who has seen the cost of constant performance and is trying to renegotiate what success means in midlife.
He still keeps one foot in the traditional narrative ("from a professional standpoint I want to be successful"), but the pivot is the point: success is framed as nice-to-have, not identity. The subtext is a bid for normalcy and partnership, and maybe an appeal to be seen as more than the guy the industry once sold.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lachey, Nick. (2026, January 15). I tell her all the time I'd gladly retire and hang out with the kids and clean the house. I want to have a good life and great family, and from a professional standpoint I want to be successful, but it's not the most important thing at all. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tell-her-all-the-time-id-gladly-retire-and-hang-153912/
Chicago Style
Lachey, Nick. "I tell her all the time I'd gladly retire and hang out with the kids and clean the house. I want to have a good life and great family, and from a professional standpoint I want to be successful, but it's not the most important thing at all." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tell-her-all-the-time-id-gladly-retire-and-hang-153912/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I tell her all the time I'd gladly retire and hang out with the kids and clean the house. I want to have a good life and great family, and from a professional standpoint I want to be successful, but it's not the most important thing at all." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-tell-her-all-the-time-id-gladly-retire-and-hang-153912/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.



