"I think about the meaning of pain. Pain is personal. It really belongs to the one feeling it. Probably the only thing that is your own. I like mine"
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Rollins turns pain into property, a kind of last private room you can’t be evicted from. That’s not a self-help platitude; it’s a punk ethic sharpened into philosophy. “Pain is personal” sounds obvious until he pushes it into a radical claim: in a culture where everything is shared, marketed, and commented on, suffering may be the only experience that can’t be fully outsourced or stolen. Even joy gets packaged. Pain, when it’s real, refuses to become content.
The subtext is classic Rollins: discipline disguised as aggression. “I like mine” isn’t masochism for shock value; it’s control. He’s talking about converting hurt into proof-of-work, the way his public persona has always treated the body and mind as something to be trained, punished, and made reliable. If you can’t always choose what happens to you, you can choose how you metabolize it. Liking your pain is a refusal to be softened by it, or defined by anyone else’s pity.
Context matters. Rollins comes out of hardcore’s pre-internet ecosystem: tour vans, bruised scenes, DIY survival, a masculinity that’s often brittle but also fiercely self-authored. The line reads like an argument with vulnerability culture: he won’t perform suffering to be understood; he’ll claim it as a private fuel source. It’s provocative because it dares you to ask whether your pain owns you, or you own it.
The subtext is classic Rollins: discipline disguised as aggression. “I like mine” isn’t masochism for shock value; it’s control. He’s talking about converting hurt into proof-of-work, the way his public persona has always treated the body and mind as something to be trained, punished, and made reliable. If you can’t always choose what happens to you, you can choose how you metabolize it. Liking your pain is a refusal to be softened by it, or defined by anyone else’s pity.
Context matters. Rollins comes out of hardcore’s pre-internet ecosystem: tour vans, bruised scenes, DIY survival, a masculinity that’s often brittle but also fiercely self-authored. The line reads like an argument with vulnerability culture: he won’t perform suffering to be understood; he’ll claim it as a private fuel source. It’s provocative because it dares you to ask whether your pain owns you, or you own it.
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