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"I think at this stage in my life I have learned that there are any number of things that men will never know, and can never hope to know, about women"

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Parker’s line lands with the hard-boiled shrug of a man who’s seen enough to stop pretending he’s got women figured out. It’s less confession than tactic: a deliberate surrender of authority that paradoxically sounds like wisdom. In the crime-fiction world Parker helped perfect, men narrate, men investigate, men control the tempo. Dropping in a sentence like this punctures that control just enough to feel honest, while keeping the speaker safely centered as the one doing the “learning.”

The intent is twofold. On the surface, it’s humility: life experience has taught limits. Underneath, it’s a way of protecting mystery. Parker’s stories often rely on women as catalysts, moral tests, or enigmas; the genre’s machinery needs them to remain partially unreadable so desire, suspicion, and danger can keep circulating. “Any number of things” is doing heavy lifting here - an open-ended admission that’s specific in tone but conveniently vague in content. It asserts difference without naming it, which lets the line sound enlightened while avoiding accountability for what, exactly, men “never” understand.

Context matters: Parker wrote in an era when mainstream masculinity was being challenged but not yet rebuilt. The sentence reads like late-stage détente - not equality, not caricature, but an armistice with complexity. Still, “about women” treats women as a single category to be decoded, and that’s the tell. The cynicism isn’t that women are unknowable; it’s that men keep wanting them to be a riddle, because riddles flatter the solver. Parker’s speaker opts out of solving, then subtly claims the moral high ground for opting out.

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Parker, Robert B. (2026, January 15). I think at this stage in my life I have learned that there are any number of things that men will never know, and can never hope to know, about women. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-at-this-stage-in-my-life-i-have-learned-71139/

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Parker, Robert B. "I think at this stage in my life I have learned that there are any number of things that men will never know, and can never hope to know, about women." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-at-this-stage-in-my-life-i-have-learned-71139/.

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"I think at this stage in my life I have learned that there are any number of things that men will never know, and can never hope to know, about women." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-at-this-stage-in-my-life-i-have-learned-71139/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Robert B. Parker (September 17, 1932 - January 18, 2010) was a Writer from USA.

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