"I think confidence comes from within. It’s not something someone else can give you"
About this Quote
The subtext is even sharper: if confidence is “given”, it can also be taken away. Meester is drawing a boundary between attention and self-worth, between being seen and being anchored. It’s a rebuke to the fairy tale that the right partner, the right role, the right compliment will finally fix you. She’s also implicitly naming a trap that disproportionately snares women in public-facing work: the expectation to be “effortlessly” confident while your appearance and likability are under constant review. In that context, “from within” isn’t a wellness slogan; it’s a survival strategy.
What makes the quote work is its refusal to perform. No dramatic backstory, no inspirational crescendo. Just a clean, almost stubborn realism: other people can mirror you, but they can’t manufacture you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
| Source | Interview with Cosmopolitan (approx. 2010), on self-confidence |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Meester, Leighton. (2026, February 14). I think confidence comes from within. It’s not something someone else can give you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-confidence-comes-from-within-its-not-185335/
Chicago Style
Meester, Leighton. "I think confidence comes from within. It’s not something someone else can give you." FixQuotes. February 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-confidence-comes-from-within-its-not-185335/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think confidence comes from within. It’s not something someone else can give you." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-confidence-comes-from-within-its-not-185335/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









