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Time & Perspective Quote by Catherine Zeta-Jones

"I think, especially in our business we meet a lot of people, and sometimes you spend so much time being nice to strangers, and so, you know, keeping a clear head and just being nice to each other. And that's all the advice I can give"

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There’s a quiet fatigue baked into this advice, the kind that only makes sense if you’ve spent years in an industry where “meeting people” is less social life than occupational hazard. Zeta-Jones frames niceness not as virtue but as labor: the constant performance of warmth for strangers who may be gatekeepers, competitors, or tomorrow’s headline. The phrase “especially in our business” works like a pressure valve, signaling that what follows isn’t a Hallmark platitude but a survival tactic for a system built on access, impressions, and reputational math.

Her repetition of “nice” is telling. It’s not poetic; it’s practical, almost defensive, as if she’s sanding down the edges of something sharper she could say about ego, predation, or the transactional nature of Hollywood. “Keeping a clear head” is the giveaway. It suggests temptation and turbulence - parties, flattery, the small humiliations of being evaluated constantly - and it carries the subtext of boundaries. Be pleasant, but stay oriented. Don’t get pulled into drama, self-mythology, or the kind of public misstep that can become your identity faster than any role.

The disarming coda - “that’s all the advice I can give” - reads like humility, but it also functions as refusal. She’s not offering a masterclass in craft because craft isn’t the only currency here. She’s pointing to the unglamorous skill that keeps careers intact: emotional regulation in a culture that monetizes your mood, your relationships, and your worst day.

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Zeta-Jones, Catherine. (2026, January 17). I think, especially in our business we meet a lot of people, and sometimes you spend so much time being nice to strangers, and so, you know, keeping a clear head and just being nice to each other. And that's all the advice I can give. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-especially-in-our-business-we-meet-a-lot-51792/

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Zeta-Jones, Catherine. "I think, especially in our business we meet a lot of people, and sometimes you spend so much time being nice to strangers, and so, you know, keeping a clear head and just being nice to each other. And that's all the advice I can give." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-especially-in-our-business-we-meet-a-lot-51792/.

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"I think, especially in our business we meet a lot of people, and sometimes you spend so much time being nice to strangers, and so, you know, keeping a clear head and just being nice to each other. And that's all the advice I can give." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-especially-in-our-business-we-meet-a-lot-51792/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Catherine Zeta-Jones (born September 25, 1969) is a Actress from Welsh.

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