"I think for a couple of years I was believing that I was doing it all on my own and I wasn't"
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The sentence lands like a quiet confession disguised as casual hindsight. Star Jones isn’t staging a grand redemption arc; she’s admitting to a smaller, more destabilizing shift: realizing that the “self-made” story she’d been living in was, at best, incomplete. The phrasing matters. “I think” softens the blow, a verbal cushion that signals lingering vulnerability. “For a couple of years” narrows the claim to a specific season of identity, suggesting this wasn’t lifelong delusion but a coping narrative she needed while building momentum. Then the pivot: “I was believing” frames independence as faith, not fact. It’s not that she was lying; she was practicing a belief system.
In the entertainment world, especially for a woman who became a high-visibility TV personality, the mythology of doing it “all on my own” has currency. It reads as toughness, legitimacy, protection. Admitting you weren’t alone can feel like admitting you didn’t earn it. Jones flips that script: the final “and I wasn’t” is blunt, almost spare, refusing melodrama. It suggests humility, yes, but also a recalibration of power. Recognizing help doesn’t diminish agency; it clarifies the infrastructure behind success - mentors, coworkers, family, staff, even audiences.
The subtext is gratitude mixed with a faint critique of the culture that demands solitary heroism. She’s pointing at the lie we reward: that needing people is weakness, when it’s actually the most accurate description of how careers, and lives, get built.
In the entertainment world, especially for a woman who became a high-visibility TV personality, the mythology of doing it “all on my own” has currency. It reads as toughness, legitimacy, protection. Admitting you weren’t alone can feel like admitting you didn’t earn it. Jones flips that script: the final “and I wasn’t” is blunt, almost spare, refusing melodrama. It suggests humility, yes, but also a recalibration of power. Recognizing help doesn’t diminish agency; it clarifies the infrastructure behind success - mentors, coworkers, family, staff, even audiences.
The subtext is gratitude mixed with a faint critique of the culture that demands solitary heroism. She’s pointing at the lie we reward: that needing people is weakness, when it’s actually the most accurate description of how careers, and lives, get built.
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| Topic | Humility |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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