"I think, generally, most people can't maintain anything that's particularly strict for very long. I watch people trying and failing to do that a lot"
About this Quote
The key word is “strict.” Paquin isn’t attacking commitment; she’s puncturing the fantasy that perfection is sustainable. Strictness promises control, and culture loves that promise, especially in wellness and productivity spaces where rigidity gets marketed as strength. Her line exposes the hidden cost: strict systems don’t break because people are weak, they break because people are people - social, tired, tempted, busy, messy. The quote is less a scold than a shrug at the mismatch between human behavior and punitive ideals.
“I watch people trying and failing” adds a second layer. She’s not theorizing from a pedestal; she’s describing an environment where attempts at strictness are performative, public, and repetitive. That feels very Hollywood-adjacent: fads cycle, resolutions are announced, backslides are visible. There’s also a hint of self-protection: by framing it as common, she drains failure of shame. The intent isn’t to celebrate quitting; it’s to argue for a more humane standard - consistency over severity, flexibility over purity - in a world that keeps selling severity as the only proof you’re serious.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Paquin, Anna. (2026, January 17). I think, generally, most people can't maintain anything that's particularly strict for very long. I watch people trying and failing to do that a lot. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-generally-most-people-cant-maintain-40279/
Chicago Style
Paquin, Anna. "I think, generally, most people can't maintain anything that's particularly strict for very long. I watch people trying and failing to do that a lot." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-generally-most-people-cant-maintain-40279/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think, generally, most people can't maintain anything that's particularly strict for very long. I watch people trying and failing to do that a lot." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-generally-most-people-cant-maintain-40279/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.








