"I think health care is more about love than about most other things. If there isn't at the core of this two human beings who have agreed to be in a relationship where one is trying to help relieve the suffering of another, which is love, you can't get to the right answer here"
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The intent is to reset the terms of debate. When policy talk gets trapped in cost curves and utilization rates, the implicit question becomes: how do we ration efficiently? Berwick flips it: what does a decent relationship demand when someone is vulnerable? Love, here, functions as a discipline, not a vibe. It names attentiveness, fidelity, and a willingness to treat suffering as real even when it’s inconvenient for throughput. In that framing, a "right answer" can’t be produced solely by actuarial logic because the problem isn’t only technical; it’s ethical.
The subtext is pointed: a health system that optimizes for billing codes, defensive documentation, or quarterly margins will reliably betray patients, not because clinicians are bad, but because the structure crowds out the relational core. Berwick, a public servant associated with quality improvement and reform-era policymaking, is also trying to give clinicians moral language for what they already know but are often trained to suppress: care is affective labor. If you deny that, you don’t get neutrality. You get a colder kind of ideology, masquerading as pragmatism.
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Berwick, Donald. (n.d.). I think health care is more about love than about most other things. If there isn't at the core of this two human beings who have agreed to be in a relationship where one is trying to help relieve the suffering of another, which is love, you can't get to the right answer here. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-health-care-is-more-about-love-than-about-55897/
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Berwick, Donald. "I think health care is more about love than about most other things. If there isn't at the core of this two human beings who have agreed to be in a relationship where one is trying to help relieve the suffering of another, which is love, you can't get to the right answer here." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-health-care-is-more-about-love-than-about-55897/.
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"I think health care is more about love than about most other things. If there isn't at the core of this two human beings who have agreed to be in a relationship where one is trying to help relieve the suffering of another, which is love, you can't get to the right answer here." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-health-care-is-more-about-love-than-about-55897/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.



