"I think I developed language skills to deal with threat. It's the girl thing to do-you know, instead of pulling out a gun"
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The jab in “the girl thing to do” is doing double duty. It acknowledges the social training that pushes women toward verbal agility, emotional calibration, and de-escalation, then exposes how that training is born from unequal power. It’s not that women are naturally better with words; it’s that words are one of the safer tools available when physical force is socially forbidden, legally risky, or simply unwinnable. That’s the subtext: femininity as a constraint that produces a compensatory intelligence.
Then comes the hard pivot: “instead of pulling out a gun.” Kruger collapses the distance between everyday intimidation and overt violence. She’s also needling the macho fantasy that power is inherently physical, that authority arrives through domination. In her art - those bold slogans pasted onto images, the advertisement aesthetic turned against itself - language is both weapon and shield. She’s been interrogating who gets to speak, who gets believed, and how mass media scripts our roles. Here, she’s admitting that her signature medium wasn’t just an artistic choice; it was a strategy for staying alive, staying legible, and refusing to be quiet.
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| Topic | Peace |
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Kruger, Barbara. (2026, January 16). I think I developed language skills to deal with threat. It's the girl thing to do-you know, instead of pulling out a gun. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-developed-language-skills-to-deal-with-138942/
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Kruger, Barbara. "I think I developed language skills to deal with threat. It's the girl thing to do-you know, instead of pulling out a gun." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-developed-language-skills-to-deal-with-138942/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think I developed language skills to deal with threat. It's the girl thing to do-you know, instead of pulling out a gun." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-developed-language-skills-to-deal-with-138942/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.








