"I think I started learning lessons about being a good person long before I ever knew what basketball was. And that starts in the home, it starts with the parental influence"
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The intent is protective and corrective. Protective, because it places character beyond the reach of fame’s corrosion and beyond the scoreboard’s judgment. Corrective, because it reframes what people should credit - or blame - when an athlete is praised as a role model or condemned as a cautionary tale. By insisting he learned how to be “a good person” before he learned basketball, Erving separates performance from personhood, and he does it in a way that resists the public’s tendency to make morality a postgame stat.
The subtext carries a generational edge. Coming up in an era when Black athletes were celebrated for spectacle but scrutinized for comportment, Erving leans into respectability without sounding preachy: good men are made at home, not manufactured by institutions that profit off them. “Parental influence” is also a subtle reminder that community infrastructure matters - stable families, mentorship, adults who can teach restraint and responsibility - and that asking sports to fix everything is both unfair and convenient.
It lands because it’s plainspoken, not pious. Erving isn’t selling inspiration; he’s redirecting the camera to the people who rarely get it.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Erving, Julius. (2026, January 15). I think I started learning lessons about being a good person long before I ever knew what basketball was. And that starts in the home, it starts with the parental influence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-started-learning-lessons-about-being-a-152049/
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Erving, Julius. "I think I started learning lessons about being a good person long before I ever knew what basketball was. And that starts in the home, it starts with the parental influence." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-started-learning-lessons-about-being-a-152049/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think I started learning lessons about being a good person long before I ever knew what basketball was. And that starts in the home, it starts with the parental influence." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-started-learning-lessons-about-being-a-152049/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


