"I think Ian McKellen made it all happen, because he used to throw dinner parties and invite everyone over"
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The intent reads as gratitude without groveling, and it doubles as a quiet compliment to McKellen's power. Not power as in studio muscle, but as social gravity. In actor culture, the room matters: not just who you know, but who sees you relaxed, funny, generous, human. A dinner party is networking with plausible deniability, where alliances form without the transactional stink of a pitch meeting. Ashmore's phrasing - "everyone over" - hints at McKellen as connective tissue, someone who collapses hierarchies by putting newcomers and established names at the same table.
Context matters here: McKellen is famous not only for marquee roles but for mentorship and community-building, particularly within British theatre and later international ensembles. Ashmore, coming out of the early-2000s franchise ecosystem, is pointing to how ensemble casts and creative circles often cohere off-camera first. The subtext is slightly cynical, but not bitter: careers aren't only built on auditions; they're built on invitations. And the most influential producers sometimes look like hosts.
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Ashmore, Shawn. (n.d.). I think Ian McKellen made it all happen, because he used to throw dinner parties and invite everyone over. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-ian-mckellen-made-it-all-happen-because-84268/
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Ashmore, Shawn. "I think Ian McKellen made it all happen, because he used to throw dinner parties and invite everyone over." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-ian-mckellen-made-it-all-happen-because-84268/.
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"I think Ian McKellen made it all happen, because he used to throw dinner parties and invite everyone over." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-ian-mckellen-made-it-all-happen-because-84268/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.


