"I think if you work as an actress and are supposed, as a character, to be in love with some actor, then to some extent you do have to be in love with him"
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The subtext is about power and vulnerability in an industry that sells intimacy while policing women for having any. When an actress is “supposed as a character” to be in love, the expectation often lands on her body first: eyes, touch, openness, the little involuntary tells the camera loves. Stratten implies you can’t fully fake those tells without letting something real leak in. That “have to” carries the pressure - the sense that credibility is demanded, and the cost is emotional exposure.
Context matters here: Stratten’s celebrity was built inside a machine that blurred desire, persona, and consent, then punished her for the blur. Read that way, the quote becomes less a dreamy acting tip and more a warning from inside the apparatus: sometimes the role doesn’t end at “cut,” and the industry quietly rewards the people most willing (or forced) to let it spill over.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stratten, Dorothy. (2026, February 16). I think if you work as an actress and are supposed, as a character, to be in love with some actor, then to some extent you do have to be in love with him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-if-you-work-as-an-actress-and-are-126086/
Chicago Style
Stratten, Dorothy. "I think if you work as an actress and are supposed, as a character, to be in love with some actor, then to some extent you do have to be in love with him." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-if-you-work-as-an-actress-and-are-126086/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think if you work as an actress and are supposed, as a character, to be in love with some actor, then to some extent you do have to be in love with him." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-if-you-work-as-an-actress-and-are-126086/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




