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Love Quote by Dorothy Stratten

"I think if you work as an actress and are supposed as a character to be in love with some actor, then to some extent you do have to be in love with him"

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There’s a startling candor in Stratten’s line because it refuses the tidy boundary we like to draw between “performance” and “real life.” She’s not romanticizing co-stars; she’s describing acting as a kind of emotional labor where the job isn’t just hitting marks, it’s manufacturing a believable private weather on command. The phrase “to some extent” does a lot of work: it hedges, it protects, it admits risk. She’s arguing for a controlled, partial surrender - not a fantasy of perfect immersion, but an acknowledgment that chemistry isn’t purely technical.

The subtext is about power and vulnerability in an industry that sells intimacy while policing women for having any. When an actress is “supposed as a character” to be in love, the expectation often lands on her body first: eyes, touch, openness, the little involuntary tells the camera loves. Stratten implies you can’t fully fake those tells without letting something real leak in. That “have to” carries the pressure - the sense that credibility is demanded, and the cost is emotional exposure.

Context matters here: Stratten’s celebrity was built inside a machine that blurred desire, persona, and consent, then punished her for the blur. Read that way, the quote becomes less a dreamy acting tip and more a warning from inside the apparatus: sometimes the role doesn’t end at “cut,” and the industry quietly rewards the people most willing (or forced) to let it spill over.

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Dorothy Stratten

Dorothy Stratten (February 28, 1960 - August 14, 1980) was a Celebrity from Canada.

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