"I think illness is a family journey, no matter what the outcome. Everybody has to be allowed to process it and mourn and deal with it in their own way"
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The subtext is permission-giving, but also boundary-setting. "Everybody has to be allowed" suggests she's seen what happens when families appoint an unofficial grief manager, or when one person's coping style becomes the house rule. The verbs stack up - "process... mourn... deal with it" - like a checklist of tasks we wish we could complete neatly, even as the sentence argues against neatness. She's advocating for plural grief: different timelines, different rituals, different vocabularies for fear.
As an actress, Wallace's instinct is empathetic and ensemble-minded. This isn't lofty philosophy; it's stage-direction for real life, urging families to stop policing each other's reactions in the name of positivity or strength. The cultural context is a public-health era saturated with inspirational scripts and "stay strong" mantras. Wallace counters with something braver: let people be complicated, let them be sad, let them be silent, let them be angry - and don't confuse discomfort with dysfunction.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wallace, Marcia. (2026, January 15). I think illness is a family journey, no matter what the outcome. Everybody has to be allowed to process it and mourn and deal with it in their own way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-illness-is-a-family-journey-no-matter-159130/
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Wallace, Marcia. "I think illness is a family journey, no matter what the outcome. Everybody has to be allowed to process it and mourn and deal with it in their own way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-illness-is-a-family-journey-no-matter-159130/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think illness is a family journey, no matter what the outcome. Everybody has to be allowed to process it and mourn and deal with it in their own way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-illness-is-a-family-journey-no-matter-159130/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.


