"I think I'm much less self confident today. I actually went through a quite painful period because of that thinking that I was completely hopeless. But I think that's something that we all go through at various times of our lives and it was quite a sustained thing with me"
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The phrasing does quiet work. “Quite painful” and “completely hopeless” are blunt, unornamented descriptors, the kind that signal he’s not auditioning for sympathy. Then he pivots: “we all go through” is both an outreach and a defense mechanism, widening the frame so the confession doesn’t become a personal spectacle. The subtext is negotiation: how to admit fragility without turning it into a brand.
Weaving’s career context deepens the irony. He’s associated with hyper-controlled icons (The Matrix’s Agent Smith, the masked certainty of V, the cool authority of Elrond), yet here he describes the opposite interior weather. That contrast highlights acting’s peculiar psychological tax: you’re paid to project conviction on cue, while your actual sense of self can be contingent, eroded by comparison, criticism, and the stop-start nature of gigs. “Quite a sustained thing with me” quietly rejects the inspirational “I got through it” arc. It’s not a dip; it’s a climate. The intent feels less like confession for its own sake than a recalibration of what resilience looks like: not triumphant confidence, but continued work in spite of its absence.
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Weaving, Hugo. (n.d.). I think I'm much less self confident today. I actually went through a quite painful period because of that thinking that I was completely hopeless. But I think that's something that we all go through at various times of our lives and it was quite a sustained thing with me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-im-much-less-self-confident-today-i-132959/
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Weaving, Hugo. "I think I'm much less self confident today. I actually went through a quite painful period because of that thinking that I was completely hopeless. But I think that's something that we all go through at various times of our lives and it was quite a sustained thing with me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-im-much-less-self-confident-today-i-132959/.
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"I think I'm much less self confident today. I actually went through a quite painful period because of that thinking that I was completely hopeless. But I think that's something that we all go through at various times of our lives and it was quite a sustained thing with me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-im-much-less-self-confident-today-i-132959/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






