"I think it would be very scary and very confusing if I didn't understand where people are coming from, but I've felt the exact same way for so many other bands, growing up. It's not really a big deal"
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Then he pivots, and that pivot is the tell. By invoking his younger self obsessing over “so many other bands,” he reframes misunderstanding as a normal feature of fandom rather than a personal failure. The subtext is generous: he’s validating the projection at the heart of music culture, where the listener’s biography often does as much composing as the musician. People “coming from” somewhere matters to him, but he accepts that their somewhere might not match his.
The casual shrug - “It’s not really a big deal” - is less dismissal than pressure-release valve. It’s Crosby insulating himself from the demand for definitive explanations, the kind that turn songs into TED Talks and artists into customer-service reps. The intent is to keep the work porous: let listeners misread, overread, and find themselves anyway, while the artist refuses the trap of becoming the final authority on their own mystique.
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Crosby, Jon. (2026, January 17). I think it would be very scary and very confusing if I didn't understand where people are coming from, but I've felt the exact same way for so many other bands, growing up. It's not really a big deal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-it-would-be-very-scary-and-very-confusing-75212/
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Crosby, Jon. "I think it would be very scary and very confusing if I didn't understand where people are coming from, but I've felt the exact same way for so many other bands, growing up. It's not really a big deal." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-it-would-be-very-scary-and-very-confusing-75212/.
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"I think it would be very scary and very confusing if I didn't understand where people are coming from, but I've felt the exact same way for so many other bands, growing up. It's not really a big deal." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-it-would-be-very-scary-and-very-confusing-75212/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

