"I think most people try to get others to see through their eyes"
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It is, on its face, a modest observation about human persuasion. Coming from Don Van Vliet - Captain Beefheart, the artist who made a career out of refusing the obvious - it reads like a sideways manifesto: the default setting of social life is evangelism, and he wants no part of it.
Van Vliet’s work (music that snarled against radio polish, paintings that prized raw perception over prettiness) was never interested in consensus reality. So when he says “most people try to get others to see through their eyes,” the subtext is less “people are self-centered” than “people are coercive without realizing it.” The phrase “through their eyes” is doing double duty. It’s intimate, almost tender - the eye as a portal to your private world. But it also hints at ventriloquism: I want you to borrow my sight, my angle, my interpretation, until your own view gets crowded out.
There’s an implied ethics here. “Most people” is a soft indictment, a way of naming the impulse without turning it into a moral sermon. He’s diagnosing a cultural habit: we confuse being understood with being obeyed, and we mistake sharing for converting. For an artist who trafficked in disorientation and stubborn individuality, the line defends an alternative aim: not to overwrite someone else’s vision, but to expand the room where multiple visions can coexist - even clash - without one demanding to become the only lens.
Van Vliet’s work (music that snarled against radio polish, paintings that prized raw perception over prettiness) was never interested in consensus reality. So when he says “most people try to get others to see through their eyes,” the subtext is less “people are self-centered” than “people are coercive without realizing it.” The phrase “through their eyes” is doing double duty. It’s intimate, almost tender - the eye as a portal to your private world. But it also hints at ventriloquism: I want you to borrow my sight, my angle, my interpretation, until your own view gets crowded out.
There’s an implied ethics here. “Most people” is a soft indictment, a way of naming the impulse without turning it into a moral sermon. He’s diagnosing a cultural habit: we confuse being understood with being obeyed, and we mistake sharing for converting. For an artist who trafficked in disorientation and stubborn individuality, the line defends an alternative aim: not to overwrite someone else’s vision, but to expand the room where multiple visions can coexist - even clash - without one demanding to become the only lens.
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