"I think of these things as obstacles rather than opportunities, because if they were opportunities it means I actually took the business of doing them seriously. To take myself too seriously is the gentle kiss of death"
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The sly twist is the second sentence: if he treated the work as an opportunity, it would mean he “took the business of doing them seriously.” Not the music - the business. That distinction is the tell. He’s defending play, eccentricity, and a kind of artistic lightness that’s often mistaken for lack of craft. Redbone’s performances were anything but casual; they were calibrated, archival, almost curatorial. What he’s allergic to is the self-important posture that turns a performer into a brand manager.
“To take myself too seriously is the gentle kiss of death” lands because it’s both funny and forensic. “Gentle” suggests the danger isn’t scandal or failure; it’s comfort. The slow suffocation of believing your own press. For an artist who built a career on being charmingly out of time, sincerity had to be protected from ambition’s grubby hands. The obstacle, then, is a useful enemy: it keeps the work from becoming a job, and the musician from becoming a monument.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Redbone, Leon. (2026, January 16). I think of these things as obstacles rather than opportunities, because if they were opportunities it means I actually took the business of doing them seriously. To take myself too seriously is the gentle kiss of death. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-of-these-things-as-obstacles-rather-than-124734/
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Redbone, Leon. "I think of these things as obstacles rather than opportunities, because if they were opportunities it means I actually took the business of doing them seriously. To take myself too seriously is the gentle kiss of death." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-of-these-things-as-obstacles-rather-than-124734/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think of these things as obstacles rather than opportunities, because if they were opportunities it means I actually took the business of doing them seriously. To take myself too seriously is the gentle kiss of death." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-of-these-things-as-obstacles-rather-than-124734/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.

