"I think once I made up my mind that I was allergic to alcohol, and that's what I learned, it made sense to me. And I think it was kind of pointed out that you know if you were allergic to strawberries, you wouldn't eat strawberries. And that made sense to me"
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Calling alcoholism an "allergy" is doing a lot of political and emotional work at once. Betty Ford frames her drinking not as a moral failure or a juicy scandal but as a condition with a simple rule: if it hurts you, you stop. The strawberries analogy is almost disarmingly plain, the kind of kitchen-table logic that sidesteps the era's loaded vocabulary about addiction. In the 1970s and early 80s, when a First Lady admitting dependency could have been treated as national embarrassment, Ford reaches for the language of health and common sense. It shrinks the problem to a manageable scale without minimizing its stakes.
The subtext is self-protection and cultural intervention. By describing herself as "allergic", she replaces shame with diagnosis. That metaphor also borrows credibility from medicine at a time when women's pain was often dismissed and public women were expected to be decorative, not complicated. She isn't asking for absolution; she's asserting a boundary. The line "once I made up my mind" matters: recovery is presented as a decision, an act of agency, not just surrender. It's a neat balancing act between the disease model ("allergic") and personal responsibility ("I wouldn't eat strawberries").
Context is everything: Ford helped make treatment speakable, then institutionalized that candor through the Betty Ford Center. The quote's intent isn't poetry; it's strategy. It offers a script for quitting that ordinary people can borrow, and it lets a public figure be human without being devoured by the spectacle of her humanity.
The subtext is self-protection and cultural intervention. By describing herself as "allergic", she replaces shame with diagnosis. That metaphor also borrows credibility from medicine at a time when women's pain was often dismissed and public women were expected to be decorative, not complicated. She isn't asking for absolution; she's asserting a boundary. The line "once I made up my mind" matters: recovery is presented as a decision, an act of agency, not just surrender. It's a neat balancing act between the disease model ("allergic") and personal responsibility ("I wouldn't eat strawberries").
Context is everything: Ford helped make treatment speakable, then institutionalized that candor through the Betty Ford Center. The quote's intent isn't poetry; it's strategy. It offers a script for quitting that ordinary people can borrow, and it lets a public figure be human without being devoured by the spectacle of her humanity.
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