"I think one wants lots of different lives"
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The line carries the actor’s occupational truth: performance is a sanctioned form of multiplicity. You step into other lives for work, then step out and are expected to have a stable, readable “real” identity for the press, the audience, the archive. Asher’s sentence pushes back on that binary. It suggests the hunger isn’t only to play different roles, but to escape the trap of being interpreted as a single thing: muse, girlfriend, “nice” British actress, domestic figure, public memory.
There’s also a distinctly postwar, mid-century undercurrent here: the promise of modern freedom bumping up against tight scripts for women’s adulthood. Wanting “lots of different lives” is ambition that won’t sit politely inside one career, one romance, one version of self. It’s not escapism so much as self-defense: a claim that identity should be expansive, episodic, and chosen - not assigned.
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Asher, Jane. (2026, January 17). I think one wants lots of different lives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-one-wants-lots-of-different-lives-79503/
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Asher, Jane. "I think one wants lots of different lives." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-one-wants-lots-of-different-lives-79503/.
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"I think one wants lots of different lives." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-one-wants-lots-of-different-lives-79503/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.








