"I think people were expecting me to be that kind of glamorous sexpot. So they were always, Wow you're not what I expected"
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Her phrasing does two things at once. "I think" softens the accusation, a strategic politeness that keeps the critique palatable while still landing the point: the gaze is loud, and it arrives preloaded with assumptions. Then she flips the power dynamic with a single observation: the disappointment belongs to them. She’s not confessing insecurity; she’s documenting a mismatch between a marketing fantasy and an actual person.
The subtext is about the entertainment economy that rewards legibility over complexity. Hargitay, long associated with steadiness and authority on Law & Order: SVU, is a case study in how a performer can become famous for credibility, empathy, and competence in a culture that keeps trying to cash her out as a pin-up. That "not what I expected" is the audience admitting, inadvertently, that they weren’t meeting her at all. They were meeting their own script.
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Hargitay, Mariska. (2026, January 16). I think people were expecting me to be that kind of glamorous sexpot. So they were always, Wow you're not what I expected. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-people-were-expecting-me-to-be-that-kind-127711/
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Hargitay, Mariska. "I think people were expecting me to be that kind of glamorous sexpot. So they were always, Wow you're not what I expected." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-people-were-expecting-me-to-be-that-kind-127711/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think people were expecting me to be that kind of glamorous sexpot. So they were always, Wow you're not what I expected." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-people-were-expecting-me-to-be-that-kind-127711/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




