"I think skating helped me find myself"
About this Quote
Fleming came up in an era when female athletes were still expected to look effortless, agreeable, decorative. Figure skating was both an opportunity and a trap: a space where women could be elite competitors while being judged on poise, beauty, and “presentation” as much as technique. The subtext here is quietly defiant. To “find myself” implies there was a self worth locating beneath the costume, beneath the scoring system, beneath the crowd’s expectations. Skating becomes a kind of private language spoken in public.
Context matters: Fleming’s career, including the 1968 Olympic gold, carried the weight of American optimism and televised spectacle, with the sport acting as a national mood board. Her line reads like a corrective to that glossy narrative. Behind the clean lines and perfect landings is the reality that discipline can be identity-making: you learn what you can endure, how you handle pressure, what you want when nobody’s clapping. The quote works because it’s modest, but it smuggles in a bigger claim: performance didn’t erase her personhood; it revealed it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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Fleming, Peggy. (2026, January 16). I think skating helped me find myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-skating-helped-me-find-myself-93825/
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Fleming, Peggy. "I think skating helped me find myself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-skating-helped-me-find-myself-93825/.
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"I think skating helped me find myself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-skating-helped-me-find-myself-93825/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

