"I think that in some ways everybody is like Roger. Everybody thinks that when their friends have a problem, that they know the answer and that it's much easier to analyze the problems of other people than your own"
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The intent isn’t to dunk on advice-givers so much as to expose why advice feels so good to give. “When their friends have a problem, that they know the answer” isn’t just confidence; it’s control. Solving someone else’s mess from a safe distance lets you feel competent, wise, even generous, without paying the emotional cost of confronting your own contradictions. Beals then lands the real point: “it’s much easier to analyze the problems of other people than your own.” “Analyze” is telling - this is the language of clarity, diagnosis, and narrative. We can turn someone else into a case study. Our own lives resist that treatment because we’re attached to every detail.
As an actress, Beals is also nodding to character logic: from the outside, motivations look clean. From the inside, they’re noisy, self-justifying, and full of blind spots. The subtext is a gentle dare: stop performing competence in your friends’ crises if you’re avoiding honesty in your own.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Beals, Jennifer. (2026, January 17). I think that in some ways everybody is like Roger. Everybody thinks that when their friends have a problem, that they know the answer and that it's much easier to analyze the problems of other people than your own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-that-in-some-ways-everybody-is-like-roger-67781/
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Beals, Jennifer. "I think that in some ways everybody is like Roger. Everybody thinks that when their friends have a problem, that they know the answer and that it's much easier to analyze the problems of other people than your own." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-that-in-some-ways-everybody-is-like-roger-67781/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think that in some ways everybody is like Roger. Everybody thinks that when their friends have a problem, that they know the answer and that it's much easier to analyze the problems of other people than your own." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-that-in-some-ways-everybody-is-like-roger-67781/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.








