"I think that tennis is a lady's sport, so we should look out there like ladies"
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Kournikova’s line lands like a serve aimed straight at the strange double-court tennis has always played: athletic legitimacy on one side, aesthetic policing on the other. Coming from an era when she was endlessly framed less as a competitor than as a spectacle, “tennis is a lady’s sport” reads less like a quaint belief and more like a pragmatic translation of the rules women athletes are forced to learn early. The phrase “so we should look out there like ladies” isn’t just about skirts or hair; it’s about managing the broadcast, the sponsors, the crowd, and the tabloid gaze that can swallow performance whole.
The intent feels part defensive, part strategic. Kournikova was marketed heavily, often mocked for it, and evaluated in a way male players rarely are. Saying “look…like ladies” can be heard as reclaiming control over an image she was going to be assigned anyway: if femininity is mandatory, at least make it self-authored. That’s the subtext: a negotiated truce with a system that rewards women for softness even while demanding they hit with violence and precision.
It also reveals how “ladylike” functions as an invisible dress code for behavior. Not just appearance, but emotional containment: don’t rage, don’t sweat too loudly, don’t look “ungrateful.” Kournikova’s quote, intentionally or not, exposes the sport’s ongoing contradiction: women are invited onto the court, then reminded the court isn’t fully theirs unless they remain palatable while taking up space.
The intent feels part defensive, part strategic. Kournikova was marketed heavily, often mocked for it, and evaluated in a way male players rarely are. Saying “look…like ladies” can be heard as reclaiming control over an image she was going to be assigned anyway: if femininity is mandatory, at least make it self-authored. That’s the subtext: a negotiated truce with a system that rewards women for softness even while demanding they hit with violence and precision.
It also reveals how “ladylike” functions as an invisible dress code for behavior. Not just appearance, but emotional containment: don’t rage, don’t sweat too loudly, don’t look “ungrateful.” Kournikova’s quote, intentionally or not, exposes the sport’s ongoing contradiction: women are invited onto the court, then reminded the court isn’t fully theirs unless they remain palatable while taking up space.
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| Topic | Sports |
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