"I think that you can take things personally or get hurt feelings as a result of something not working out, just because your psyche said it should, or you deserve it, or whatever it is"
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As an actor, Shanks sits in a profession built on rejection, randomness, and subjective gatekeeping. In that world, taking things personally is almost the default setting: you’re literally offering your face, voice, and choices to be accepted or dismissed. His intent reads like a hard-earned coping mechanism, a way to separate self-worth from outcomes you can’t fully control. The subtext is that hurt feelings often arrive wearing the costume of justice: “I deserve it.” He punctures that with a slightly mocking “or whatever,” refusing to dignify the inner narrative as fact.
Culturally, it lands in a moment where “manifesting” and self-optimization can blur into moral accounting - if you worked hard, if you wanted it enough, it should happen. Shanks pushes back with something more bracing: disappointment isn’t always evidence of being wronged; sometimes it’s just evidence that your story about what you were owed was too confident. That’s not cynicism. It’s emotional triage.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shanks, Michael. (2026, February 16). I think that you can take things personally or get hurt feelings as a result of something not working out, just because your psyche said it should, or you deserve it, or whatever it is. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-that-you-can-take-things-personally-or-147305/
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Shanks, Michael. "I think that you can take things personally or get hurt feelings as a result of something not working out, just because your psyche said it should, or you deserve it, or whatever it is." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-that-you-can-take-things-personally-or-147305/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think that you can take things personally or get hurt feelings as a result of something not working out, just because your psyche said it should, or you deserve it, or whatever it is." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-that-you-can-take-things-personally-or-147305/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.








