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Daily Inspiration Quote by Michael Shanks

"I think that you can take things personally or get hurt feelings as a result of something not working out just because your psyche said it should or you deserve it, or whatever it is"

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Shanks is sketching the emotional hangover of entitlement, the quiet belief that life owes you coherence if you’ve followed the script in your head. The phrasing is deliberately casual - “or whatever it is” - but that looseness is the tell: he’s describing a reflex so common it barely feels like a philosophy until it backfires. When something “not working out” becomes an injury, it’s rarely the event itself; it’s the collision between reality and the private contract your “psyche said” you had.

As an actor, Shanks sits in a profession built on rejection, randomness, and subjective gatekeeping. In that world, taking things personally is almost the default setting: you’re literally offering your face, voice, and choices to be accepted or dismissed. His intent reads like a hard-earned coping mechanism, a way to separate self-worth from outcomes you can’t fully control. The subtext is that hurt feelings often arrive wearing the costume of justice: “I deserve it.” He punctures that with a slightly mocking “or whatever,” refusing to dignify the inner narrative as fact.

Culturally, it lands in a moment where “manifesting” and self-optimization can blur into moral accounting - if you worked hard, if you wanted it enough, it should happen. Shanks pushes back with something more bracing: disappointment isn’t always evidence of being wronged; sometimes it’s just evidence that your story about what you were owed was too confident. That’s not cynicism. It’s emotional triage.

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Michael Shanks (born December 15, 1970) is a Actor from Canada.

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