"I think that's what helped us: confidence, respect, the desire to work hard"
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The triad is carefully ordered. "Confidence" comes first because bands run on risk: trying ideas that might fail publicly, writing past the obvious chorus, trusting a strange arrangement long enough to see if it becomes a song. But confidence alone curdles into ego, so "respect" arrives as a check against the classic band implosion. It's a quiet admission that longevity isn't just creative; it's relational. You can hear the subtext of a group like Radiohead, where aesthetic reinvention required not only taste but restraint: giving each member space, accepting vetoes, and treating disagreement as part of the process rather than a betrayal.
Then comes "the desire to work hard" - not "we worked hard", but the desire. That phrasing matters: it frames labor as an identity and a choice, not a punishment. It also smuggles in ambition without bragging. O'Brien isn't selling hustle culture; he's naming the mundane discipline behind art that looks effortless. In three plain nouns, he demystifies how a band survives fame, friction, and time.
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| Topic | Work Ethic |
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