"I think the kind of career I've had, something would have had to be sacrificed"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “I think” is a softener, a performer’s instinct to avoid sounding bitter, even while stating a hard truth. “The kind of career I’ve had” frames her success as a specific species: not just steady employment, but a public-facing life that demands constant mobility, reinvention, and emotional availability on command. Then comes the passive voice that does the real work: “something would have had to be sacrificed.” She doesn’t name the sacrifice, which is the point. Naming it would turn private grief into copy. Leaving it vague preserves dignity while still acknowledging loss.
In early 20th-century acting, especially for women, the trade-offs were structural, not merely personal: touring schedules, studio control, reputational surveillance, and the expectation that a “serious” actress maintain a carefully managed image. Frederick’s restraint reads like self-protection in a culture quick to moralize women’s ambition. The subtext is less confession than quiet indictment: the system is designed so that professional fullness requires personal subtraction. The line works because it refuses melodrama; it’s not a lament, it’s a ledger.
Quote Details
| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Frederick, Pauline. (2026, January 16). I think the kind of career I've had, something would have had to be sacrificed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-kind-of-career-ive-had-something-135416/
Chicago Style
Frederick, Pauline. "I think the kind of career I've had, something would have had to be sacrificed." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-kind-of-career-ive-had-something-135416/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think the kind of career I've had, something would have had to be sacrificed." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-kind-of-career-ive-had-something-135416/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



