"I think the main thing I remembered throughout all of filming it was just that she just was extremely self-destructive. I think everybody can relate to that a little bit. She doesn't like herself"
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Then comes the risky move: “I think everybody can relate to that a little bit.” That “a little bit” is doing moral triage. It invites recognition without forcing confession, turning a potentially sensational trait into a familiar modern condition. In a culture that treats self-sabotage as both meme and pathology, Sossamon frames it as legible, even mundane: not the dramatic fall, but the daily erosion.
“She doesn’t like herself” lands with the bluntness of a lyric. No psychoanalytic backstory, no therapeutic vocabulary, just the core engine of the behavior. The subtext is empathetic but unsparing: the tragedy isn’t that she’s wild; it’s that she’s at war with her own reflection. As an actor-musician, Sossamon knows how audiences romanticize damaged women onscreen. She’s pushing against that romance, insisting the “interesting” part is also the ugliest part, and it’s uncomfortably close to home.
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Sossamon, Shannyn. (2026, January 16). I think the main thing I remembered throughout all of filming it was just that she just was extremely self-destructive. I think everybody can relate to that a little bit. She doesn't like herself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-main-thing-i-remembered-throughout-126837/
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Sossamon, Shannyn. "I think the main thing I remembered throughout all of filming it was just that she just was extremely self-destructive. I think everybody can relate to that a little bit. She doesn't like herself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-main-thing-i-remembered-throughout-126837/.
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"I think the main thing I remembered throughout all of filming it was just that she just was extremely self-destructive. I think everybody can relate to that a little bit. She doesn't like herself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-main-thing-i-remembered-throughout-126837/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





