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Leadership Quote by Daniel Goleman

"I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind"

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Goleman is threading a needle that modern mental health culture keeps snapping: the false choice between “chemistry” and “character.” His phrasing is careful, almost clinical, but the intent is pointed. Medication is framed as pragmatic, even “smart,” which subtly rebukes the lingering moralism that treats pills as weakness. Then he pulls the rug from under any consumer-friendly fantasy that a prescription is a total solution. “Don’t do only that” reads like a warning label for an age that wants relief without renovation.

The subtext is Goleman’s signature argument from emotional intelligence: feelings aren’t just storms to endure; they’re patterns you can learn to predict and redirect. “Train your mind” is gym language repurposed for inner life, suggesting practice, repetition, and incremental gains rather than a single epiphany. It also smuggles in agency without blaming the sufferer. You can’t will your way out of panic, grief, or depression, but you can build skills that change how those experiences land.

Context matters: Goleman comes out of a late-20th-century moment when neuroscience and therapy went mainstream, and when SSRIs helped rebrand distress as treatable. He’s arguing against two extremes that travel well on social media: pharmacological reductionism (you are your neurotransmitters) and wellness fundamentalism (you just need the right mindset). The line works because it grants dignity to both realities: biology can be sticky, and attention can be trained. The pitch isn’t purity; it’s a combined toolkit.

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Goleman, Daniel. (2026, January 17). I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-smartest-thing-for-people-to-do-to-39637/

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Goleman, Daniel. "I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-smartest-thing-for-people-to-do-to-39637/.

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"I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-smartest-thing-for-people-to-do-to-39637/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Daniel Goleman (born March 7, 1946) is a Author from USA.

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