"I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind"
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The subtext is Goleman’s signature argument from emotional intelligence: feelings aren’t just storms to endure; they’re patterns you can learn to predict and redirect. “Train your mind” is gym language repurposed for inner life, suggesting practice, repetition, and incremental gains rather than a single epiphany. It also smuggles in agency without blaming the sufferer. You can’t will your way out of panic, grief, or depression, but you can build skills that change how those experiences land.
Context matters: Goleman comes out of a late-20th-century moment when neuroscience and therapy went mainstream, and when SSRIs helped rebrand distress as treatable. He’s arguing against two extremes that travel well on social media: pharmacological reductionism (you are your neurotransmitters) and wellness fundamentalism (you just need the right mindset). The line works because it grants dignity to both realities: biology can be sticky, and attention can be trained. The pitch isn’t purity; it’s a combined toolkit.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Goleman, Daniel. (2026, January 17). I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-smartest-thing-for-people-to-do-to-39637/
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Goleman, Daniel. "I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-smartest-thing-for-people-to-do-to-39637/.
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"I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-the-smartest-thing-for-people-to-do-to-39637/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










