"I think there are good men and women in all decades. We've grown cynical. And look at what we do to all our heroes: Churchill, FDR, Kennedy, they all had affairs. But heroic things happen every day"
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The line works because it yanks the conversation away from purity and back toward scale. Affairs are messy, human, familiar; “heroic things” are outward-facing, costly, and often anonymous. Costner sets up a deliberate contrast: tabloid sin versus civic courage. In doing so, he’s also defending a certain kind of old-school, big-screen heroism - the kind his film persona has long embodied - against an era that prefers deconstruction to devotion.
There’s subtext here about celebrity culture too. We demand icons, then punish them for being real people, and the punishment conveniently absolves us from the harder task: recognizing heroism without the glow of legend. “Every day” is the quiet radical claim. It democratizes the heroic, suggesting that valor isn’t a museum exhibit labeled with presidents’ names; it’s a recurring choice made by nurses, parents, whistleblowers, strangers who stop. Costner’s plea isn’t for naivete. It’s for proportion.
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Costner, Kevin. (2026, January 16). I think there are good men and women in all decades. We've grown cynical. And look at what we do to all our heroes: Churchill, FDR, Kennedy, they all had affairs. But heroic things happen every day. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-there-are-good-men-and-women-in-all-107465/
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Costner, Kevin. "I think there are good men and women in all decades. We've grown cynical. And look at what we do to all our heroes: Churchill, FDR, Kennedy, they all had affairs. But heroic things happen every day." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-there-are-good-men-and-women-in-all-107465/.
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"I think there are good men and women in all decades. We've grown cynical. And look at what we do to all our heroes: Churchill, FDR, Kennedy, they all had affairs. But heroic things happen every day." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-there-are-good-men-and-women-in-all-107465/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.








