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Daily Inspiration Quote by Aaron Spelling

"I think there are two ways to depict a family. One is what it's really like, and one is what the audience would like it to be. Between you and me, I think the second one is what I would prefer"

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Spelling’s candor lands like a wink from the control room: realism is optional when you’re manufacturing comfort at scale. He frames “two ways” to depict a family as if they’re equally valid, then quietly admits he’s choosing the one that sells. The subtext isn’t just preference; it’s an industrial philosophy. Television, in Spelling’s era, wasn’t a window so much as a thermostat, tuned to the temperature viewers wanted to feel when they got home.

The line is doing two jobs at once. On the surface, it’s a harmless confession about taste. Underneath, it’s a defense of escapism that anticipates every prestige-era argument about “relatability” versus “truth.” Spelling’s “between you and me” builds intimacy while also disarming criticism: if he’s already admitted the compromise, what’s left to accuse him of? The slyness is that he doesn’t apologize. He normalizes the idea that audience desire is a creative north star, even if it means sanding off the jagged edges of actual family life - conflict that doesn’t resolve in 44 minutes, love that’s conditional, money that doesn’t magically appear.

Context matters: Spelling helped define glossy, aspiration-forward TV (from soap operas to prime-time dramas) at a moment when broadcast networks needed mass appeal and advertisers wanted safe adjacency. His preferred family isn’t “fake” so much as strategically curated: a narrative product designed to soothe, flatter, and keep you watching. The quote reads like an accidental manifesto for television as wish-fulfillment, and a reminder that what we call “family values” on screen is often just audience management with better lighting.

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Aaron Spelling (April 22, 1923 - June 23, 2006) was a Producer from USA.

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